Phoenix man is what kind of?

Phoenix man is what kind of?

In fact, Phoenix man is not very stingy, in the eyes of the family Phoenix man is really important, such as the Phoenix man married a monthly salary of 3000 yuan, per month before leaving the basic expenses, all the rest to parents, in his own words, "my mother helped me to keep up with the daughter-in-law". But when the daughter-in-law, Phoenix parents stay silent on the matter. Married to buy a house, the Phoenix men passbook only 500 yuan, is the female peacock and her family came up with the first payment.　　

The chart: from the network will.

Phoenix man is a man who is very self disciplined, their upbringing, neither from the people around you and urged guidance, no influence and lead from the environment, only by the heart save breath, with their own sike. Finally, hard work pays off, get out of the mountains on the town, rushed to the first tier and second tier city, fall feet.

Know them outside, enjoy the praise from all the individual efforts, these will be slightly too, with a little slack, in a sudden collapse, defeated, was thrown out of the ranks......

They know in my hometown, I have been as excellent and benchmarking because of his hard work, family pride and joy, the neighbours always on his upturned face, said XX was a good boy, always know a good school, now can not, stay in Beijing / Shanghai...... He has been, relatives and neighbors of recognition and trust, even if these, in his heart slowly fermented into responsibility and play, he did not want them frustrated because of him, but can not afford, a solitary heart has always been in the struggle with the outside, if there is no home on his upturned smiling, he also where to find genuine warmth......

However, the hometown people never see not to think, is how it is not easy for those he have today, he in the brush Title summer afternoon when they sweat can not see, they don't know where he left the company to work overtime at night, they just want to see what they want to see, know what they want to know.

So, they feel that since XX now in Beijing / Shanghai, is not it can help nephew in Beijing / Shanghai to find a job, a stable too tired to do work, it should be XX a word thing, what? No? You are not XX, I see you go to school when you Di net pickle, I gave you 50 dollars, let you buy something to eat, you better now, it will not help the busy, XX listened, nowhere bleak, tell them that their river in Beijing / Shanghai is a clay Buddha, he did not want to lose this look, then pulled out, wanted to change a good mobile phone budget to uncle, said, see if you can support people to spend some money for him at home.

They are looking at the suffering the pain and happiness, while they do not understand their home trying hard, while enjoying the hometown people think their extraordinary ability, in such situations, like hanging furnace Roasted Duck, side to the hometown people with oil and let yourself struggling to hold good to get it......

Phoenix man believe that some people do not understand the meaning of the word, simply Phoenix man refers to those born in rural areas, a group of people on the outside of the universe of 1,000,000,000 universes not know in their hearts, only believe that parents tell their words: Study hard, admitted to a good university, will earn a lot of money leave this poor place with parents.

They also kept those words as truth, their only way out is to learn, so as long as they can learn what difficulties are overcome, it is precisely because of this hard to develop their habit, this habit will also contribute to their work and life. These mountain children experienced the city people can not imagine things, they should enjoy their parents to enjoy the love when they assume everything an adult should do in this.

They grow up fast, and experience more, so they will be more than the average person to mature a lot, but I feel they are in front of their peers or inferiority complex, one is because of children's psychological treatment, other people's children can do, and we are in this way, they may complain, but they psychological defense easily compromised, students may be a casual word can make them angry and even make a radical, because of their childhood and no laughter.

The flying Golden Phoenix, they rely on their own efforts to enter a good university, realize their ideals, but they are also not in University presence, to feel that they are not going to express myself, also do not have what interest, but they keep learning attitude, they are among the best in the the result, but other aspects are particularly weak, after looking for work will be discriminated against.

This Phoenix man comes from the network, refers to the part of a man inside the family environment is poor, not far to the city with a group of background results, because this group of men with the past growth environment is different from the current living environment, they often attend to the original family, and even some distant relatives over the head take care of the.Because they think their own achievements, is the original family, was a member of the family sacrifice in exchange for, there is a strong sense of responsibility in this regard.

But the word Phoenix man, in a neutral word today, a derogatory meaning.That realized in forming their own family, and not a very modern and qualified identity. Despise the wife's feelings, life often with "macho" and "domestic violence" these bad behavior. Many men marry Phoenix woman, said their marriage is not happy, have a good economic foundation, but not the love.

But today there are still many Phoenix man, I want to give them the society pointed out these remarks, or have more influence, now the network information developed, the above is still received in the ideological education. At the mention of the Phoenix man, ultimately is the wife of her husband in the life of a lot of things too much, these things are often I will not realize, and understanding. But as others, and they still have Phoenix, reflection.

Now the economic development is, is all around the city development. And so many people in rural areas, to realize the pursuit of higher life, that is to go to the big city to strive, to become Phoenix man, and such family education is a new generation of people to change, to reflect, to find the problem and improvement. Today, those who have become a family problem "said Phoenix man", is actually like a square dance aunt, they must know the nuisance, but can not change.

Phoenix man, born in a poor man, out of phoenix nest; two smart and hard, smart before becoming a Phoenix Phoenix; three men all achievements are by their own hands to come; four of what he has and to lose everything, stingy, prodding fear; five don't stop to calculate their pay and receive, in a statement, they pay to get it wrong; the key of inferiority, isn't very big, but it is very difficult to deal with, is often the root causes of conflict, but often hidden deep.

The rest of the money is not the key to 3S lady love money, love money but also the white Formica white Formica is not short of money. The rest is to climb 3S lady rich handsome to prove their excellent than white formica.However, the reality is rich handsome despise rural female, so rural woman can only marry a man in rural areas. Many rural women envy city white Formica white Formica says the city is also seen as the white Formica 3S lady city rural women. The reality is rich handsome marry white Formica, rural women can only see the drama to enhance self-confidence, rely on surgery to change the character that can be used to change the appearance of the character. The man in the city and town rich white beauty Mendanghudui, but equal to the white Formica and rural women are different, rural women that do not have to go to school can not work in town, all life is very beautiful, but can not face the city man blow, the fact that man might fall in love with her to the poor one hundred and eight thousand in the rural women, and so were so humble also always think the city man IQ problem will fall in love with her that she did not marry non city white Formica than she was in love all AA, get married to buy a house is also half of the parents of both men and women, but women are now equal a man in the city this stupid woman in the eyes is very low, because every woman will be old, plus now men are unreliable, only rely on their own offspring of the most stable. After all, love and marriage is not an excuse to not climb Mendanghudui the future and now regardless of men and women, but the rich and poor, so the better the conditions of more people to equal, equal economic spirit circumstances will achieve equality

Like a ghost of the mind, the large family has an octopus like sound, interest "target intrusion."

It can be based on studying in a big city, really think he is "phoenix"? Don't put all the ideas when affected by the environment and modern civilization not eradicate, pheasant is always a pheasant, never a phoenix.